After reading the comments, deleting things that didn't need to be said, and talking with a couple of other folks, I've come to a determination here.
This blog is going to be about ME.
If I talk about my wife, it's only going to be in reference to ME.
If I say something, it's from MY perspective.
There's not going to be anything regarding objectivity here.
I will write how I see things, and from my viewpoint.
However, with this in mind, I'm going to be limiting what I say and talk about regarding my wife and family.
This may mean that I'll be blogging about the weather, or some ant crawling across the floor of my office because nearly 9-10ths of my blog have been centered around me and my relationship.
After reading Bee's comment, I realized that she was right.
I'm hurting my spouse by saying these things, even if I believe in what I'm writing.
Because of this, I need to start editing my writing, and thinking through what it is I'm trying to say.
Yes, even an asshole can learn to be Politically Correct, and I'm going to take that crash-course starter class.
So, as of today, my posts regarding myself and my family are going to be coming off the board.
I don't know if I'm going to delete them, or just restrict access, but they'll be taken off.
I need to learn to think first and foremost about my family, even to the detriment of myself, or things that I enjoy.
Thank you all for your comments, and I hope you keep reading.